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Lessons that I have learnt from the life in a form of my very own personal quotes!

"Days are not bad or good! They are stationary! we change our outlook everyday" "Smallest things can bring happiness in our lives and marvelous things can cause us grief" "Take the ownership of your life & stop complaining" "Bad luck is not a destiny but an outcome of a bad decision" "Accept & respect your failure then only you can move on" "Zero expectations from other is an eternal revelation" "Expect only from your own self first and thereafter God Al Mighty" "Fear Death and then act you will commit almost no sin" "Regret is a living curse; get over it as soon as u can." "Forgive yourself first then only God will forgive you." "We are not always right, discussions and sharing can save us from hell; in this life and life after death" "Untreated wounds turn into cancer, don’t hide your sorrows share with your friends and family" "We craft our lives, if i...

Make Marriage Marvelous

MMM (Make Marriage Marvelous) Statement/Expression/Frequency required/time surroundings Wow! U look good!/Lil smile/15 days/3 seconds/ anywhere Love you /lil hug/ once in a week/5 seconds-pl pause/Private U r da best!/ Genuine /crowd needed/ 3 seconds public Good food! Wow!/ Once in a month/ 3 seconds/ any plance U work hard4us/ genuine/once in a month/3 seconds/ anywhere I can't make it without u/ Serious/ 2months/ 3 seconds/ bedtime U Want to shop?/ Readiness/ 1 month/ 2 seconds /cooking time Are you happy/ love/3 month/2 seconds/ bedtime? How's ur family?/ concern/1 month/ 3 seconds /TV time Are you tired?/ Affection /15days /3 seconds/ evening Recommended activities are optional:- · Candle light dinner-on occasions · Go for dance – once in a quarter · Long drive without kids!-once in a two months · Buy surprise gifts as small as rose or a hair clip-once in a month · Phone her once in a day on one specific time. Make a ritual. It might take as short as 20 seconds. · Last wor...

sang-e-dil

Sang-e-dil-ushshaaq, dil pe paiband liye hue, Chale gaye woh jo kabhi ham-sukhan hua kare. (ham_suKHan = together, ushshaaq = lovers, paiband=patch) Boot-e-sifaal baqi reh gaya, gum kis kadar jiye, Noor-e-jamal kho gaya jo talab aanso kiya kare. (Sifaal=clay, jamal=beauty) Tijarat-e-eshq main hisaab na rakha na manga roop, Duniya ne banta sab magar; hum talab dard hi kiya kare. (Tijarat=trade, faiz=profit,) Manzar-e-Qyamat kya kahiye, hum tanha tanha phir se hain, Hai akhiri hasrat wasl-e-sanam khud ki wehshat se jhuja kiye. (Hasrat=wish, wasl=meeting, wehshat = solitude)

yunhi

Aatish-e- jazbaat sulagte rahe shab-o-roz yunhi, Intzaar –e-mehrbaan ka charmarta raha har roz yunhi! Palkon ne buhara rahon ko, ashkon ne lagaye fawware, Dhadkan ne chede saaz kai, siski se bandhi saanse yunhi! Tanha lamhon se saji mehfil, har aahat pe dil dhadke unhi, Intzaar-e-ulfat se hui shaamain siyah,har roz jage ummeed yunhi! Aane ka manzar kya hoga, kaisi hogi mulaakat bhala, Nazrain pathraai, bojhil si, rahon main pada dil jaane yunhi! Ankhon main dhadakta dil harso, mulakaat ke sapne bunta raha, Main hansti- roti, soti-jagti, sapno main apne sulagti yunhi! composed in April 2000

Conscious mind

Conscious mind, restless heart, Mindful gestures, heartbeat fast. Volumes of emotions, almost on the edge, Civilized being hold it back. Manners, civility ought to be there, Anger & anxiety not to reflect. Copious queries struggle within, Unearth the answers if you can? Mindful body, untamed thoughts, Controlled emotions, uptight mouth. Stay with the struggle & co-exist, Die ten times & don’t ask a bit. If you can do it all, you are a mindful soul, If you won't comply, for sure will be at halt. Radical? Diplomat? Or may be lil Hippocrat? You need to decide it, how you want to reflect! When enough is enough & no more bearing left, When burden goes too heavy that u can’t bear at all. Break the bonds and let it go, Free urself once & for all, Tell them all "not anymore"

All about me

I can hear a round of applause. I can feel majesty of the crown. Aroma from the flowers, glitter of the Stars. Glory from the Sun, distinctive like the Mars. Life has been fantastic, not too many demands. This is me "Roopa"; completely in command. No dream is so big, that I cannot achieve. Rhythm of the feet has to be very swift. The tracks are clean, humps don’t exist. Hurdles of my path, I love them from my heart. This is all me "Roopa" mere yaar ;)

Half asleep

Half asleep; folded eyes, Lot to say but throat goes dry. Unsung songs & feral desires, Being tide comes & takes us high. Appealing visage that lure us all, Fallout of this walk shakes our souls. False dreams deceive for sure. Repentance will be the last room pure. Libido inside is very wild, Hold it tight with a strong reliance. "Shaitan" can sweep you on the coast. Guard yourself on the fine contour. Reward thereafter will be there for sure, Half a sleep; folded eyes, Watch your steps & watch your tides.

let's vote

Wake up Indians; get up fast! Before it's late; let's all go cast! The time has come to get all alarmed. Use our right; exercise our power. Let's not allow the worst to rule. One eye is better than the blinded fools. Where we're and where we are Golden bird to meager shape, We've born all the tears. Still we've emerged like a shining star. Let's not reverse & go back dear. Lot has gone to get us here. HUMILITY of our land is again on the stake. Let's go out and cast your vote. Let's join the wagon and say that "WE CARE"

Let's Vote

Wake up Indians; get up fast! Before it's late; let's all go cast! The time has come to get all alarmed. Use our right; exercise our power. Let's not allow the worst to rule. One eye is better than the blinded fools. Where we're and where we are Golden bird to meager shape, We've born all the tears. Still we've emerged like a shining star. Let's not reverse & go back dear. Lot has gone to get us here. HUMILITY of our land is again on the stake. Let's go out and cast your vote. Let's join the wagon and say that "WE CARE"

Marital Rape

Marital Rape …are we forced to get there????? I live in Dubai for last 9 years and have dream to go back to my home town New Delhi one day. After hearing about Afghan and Taliban last night that they have issued a law where rape in the marriage is legalized; I am shocked, ashamed and filled with anger. I feel sorry for the women in Afghan and Taliban areas. Entire women community has been let down & degraded in front of the world. The irony is that this suppression and subjugation is their fate till some one come forward to their rescue. A wild thought struck my mind that "Is that where we have been pushed back home too?" The supporters of such kind of conservative and so called hard hit Hindutava people might even do it in India???? GOD FORBID IF AT ALL; THEY COME IN POWER??????????? WILL I TAKE MY KIDS IN A COUNTRY WHERE THIS KIND OF PEOPLE STAYS IN POWER? The relief toady is that they are not in a majority but anything is possible in a coalition politics. I have seen t...

Job Description for Elected Politician

Education & experience required: Minimum Bachelor with 5-7 years of social work track record or community services record? Age limit:- As per Indian retirement age for Govt Employees. Achievements:- What are the achievements during their 5-7 years of community service? Secular character :- They should be prohibited for using religion in their political career. They should be professionally dressed up without demonstrating their individual faith in their dress code bcoz being a public servant they should project a image by which people of all faith feel connected. Seeing bhagwa kurta or green topi with kajal in eyes politician projects very orthodox image by which community at large do not approach them in a frank manner. Criminal record:- They should not be guilty in any civil or criminal case as per Indian judicial system. Well behaved:- After winning the elections they should take an oath for not shouting like idiots in the parliament and waste tax payers money. No use of ab...

Rise again

Dawn is gone, Sunshine disappeared. Wake up oh gal night is all ahead! Open your eyes look at the Sun-set, Unleash yourself, discover the depth. Ascertain yourself in the night with the Moon! The Sun will rise again; you'll dance on your tune! The story of your rising soon will be told. Don’t you just lay back, go & get on your track.

Friend

When relations all go strain; & we almost insane. When voracity dominates us all; essence of a friend is gone. When they need; I stand tall. When I need all are gone. Deceiving is a ritual, forgetting is a norm. Exploitation is strength & jealousy is so strong. Leave them, dump them; don’t you regret. Life is a journey; we might get some one great. Let's be genuine & pure in our hearts, Let's not seek & seek from a friend. Friend is not a one who will not offer his hand. Let's not blame him; if he is really bare hands.

Saboteur

How are the things and how should they be? What ought to be and what not to be? Guide our path and pave the ways. We wish them or not who can say? What are the rights and what are the wrongs? Duties or desires, is that what we aspire? We all got the lives; do we really have the LIFE? Who raise these questions? Will they get the answers? When saboteur is a friend who can hold our hands? We are our enemies; we do not need some more. He is more than enough to kill us on the shores. Get some help and get one coach. Let your dreams get nicest floor. You are the best! You are human make. Let your self go & let's prevail. Talk it, know it, feel your soul. Let it tell you, what its goal. What will be left that's it all.

Desires

Desires are so blurred, dreams are in haze. Egos are so high, Karmas all in blaze. Illusion is the master & soul is a slave. Wants are eternal, means seem so lean. Captive all humanity, survive worldly desires. Vanished fine lanes, what left is so fierce. Miseries all around, have-nots everywhere. Mirage is so strong that silver lines disappear.

LIFE

LIFE Why do we live & why do we die. Life is an irony that no one can deny. We all have the reasons we all have our whys We live it, we breath it, we make it so live. Some fairies, some miseries, some sorrows we hold There are some stories that will never be told Freshness of the heavens and splendor so bizarre Life is a mystery let's be on the ride

HOLI

Holi main rangke tum apni rangeen jawani jee lena. Hum chale priye de laal rang, nayi duniyan main ye mere WATAN. Hum chale gaye us paar sanam, aana bilkul mumkin hi nahin. Tum rakhna apna dhyan WATAN.oh! mere Watan dilbar mere. Humne khaili hai badi holi, rangon ki jahgah khai goli. Dushman jitna hoshiyar bana, di humne unko maar sada. Wo jeet hi kya qurbani bina, wo holi kya rang laal bina. Hum sabka lahu bhi kam tha maa tujhpe sadke sara Hindustan. Kuch aur kabhi ho hungamain kabhi, Maa Dharti tum mat ghabrana. Hain bahut jawaan hamare se, teri raksha main mit jane ko. Hain bahut jawan tadapte se tere dushman ko dhar lene ko. Tu khush ho, aur khushiyan phele, dukh dard, tadap sab kho jaye. Holi ke rang main milkar har ek banda muskata rahe. Barsih ki boondon main milkar, Barish ki boodon main chip kar. holi ke din holi pe hum, phir sab ko bhigo ke jayainge. Bhigi palkon se hamari kabhi, teri bhigi palak sukhayainge. Holi ke din, holi pe MAA! hum tujhse milne aayainge.
SAVVY quotes 1. The distance we see from our bare eyes could be mere illusion. We may get there, we may not get there, let’s raise once at least to try. 2. Life is not easy but take it easy. 3. You will be sad if you feel you are sad. If you are not happy and you will think that you are happy, you may not feel happy but try to think that you are happy and there are chances that you may feel happy so, please try to be happy & Inshallah you will be happyJ 4. Nothing comes easily in our lives; so let's not anything precious go easily. Be it an object or a subject, value it. 5. GIVE & TAKE You deserve love, if you give love. You deserve good friends if you are a good friend. You deserve happiness if you spread happiness. You deserve to be praised if you praise others. You are forgiven if you forgive others. You will be forgotten if you forget others. You will get if you will give. Therefore always give first the rest will follow eventually.

Punishments for the criminals involved in “Mangalore pub crisis”

No one should allow people to do moral policing in India. Look at the girls who were dragged on the roads by crooked so called “karyakartas(workers)”. I believe & proposed the following remedies for this disease. A) They should be all given 100 lashes with a punishment to serve as a labour on roads & infrastructure projects to serve the nation & “matrabhumi” more constructively. B) The leaders of such parties should be punished & assign duties to clean the “sarvajanik sulabh shouchalyas”(public toilets) to at least contribute towards the cleanliness of our nation. C) Media should boycott them. These ignorant, illiterate buffoons should not to be seen or heard through any mass communication medium. As a result their utmost powerful big buffoons or their political umbrella holders will then abort them. D) All such people who force religion and religious preach should know that there is no compulsion in religion or self-demonstration of anyone’s religious belief. They shou...

Love you Dubai

Jan 31st 2008 I love u Dubai Oh Dubai ! Oh Dubai! I love u Dubai. This city gave me the land to stand, the sky to reach & the air to breath. Oh Dubai ! Oh Dubai ! I love u Dubai. My home, my people, my country, all taken away, Those, brought me in the world, were taken away, I came here to find my life again, I got it Dubai, I love you Dubai. Oh Dubai ! Oh Dubai ! I love u Dubai. These roads, the air, the sea, so young, all hold my heart, that was shattered away. My life was gone into dark for sure I know, this city game me new reasons to live it again. Oh Dubai! Oh Dubai! I love u Dubai. Dubai has become my life gradually, my home, my world, my entire universe. I hope this land is not taken away, My LORD, My GOD, listen to my peal please. I live here, forever and ever and ever again. I fear not to loose it all over again. My home my pulse my dear city, Oh Dubai ! Oh Dubai ! I love u Dubai. Written byRoopa Sharma Hasan